Ashley Papa

Writer and Author
Ashley Papa is an experienced relationship writer. She is the author of the popular "Vixen Investigations: The Mayoral Affairs" and loves writing about it all: sex, love, dating, marriage, and “crimes of the heart”. Ashley has been working with Zoosk to create engaging content around dating advice, relationship tips, and much more!

Articles

A woman who looked at the reasons to break up and knows she has a hard choice to make, looking down.
June 17, 2018 • By Ashley Papa

8 Not-So-Obvious Reasons to Break Up with Someone

We think of breakups as being big dramatic events, but more often than not, the end of a relationship comes from a slow erosion of a connection.

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A couple who used to hate dating laughing together in the sunset.
June 1, 2018 • By Ashley Papa

Hate Dating? Here Are 13 Dating Tips to Turn It Around

We all hate dating at some point. Here’s what you can do to move forward anyway.

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A couple in a secret relationship sneaking a kiss in an alley outside a restaurant.
May 27, 2018 • By Ashley Papa

When a Secret Relationship Does and Doesn’t Work

5 common reasons people have secret relationships and insight on whether or not they can work.

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A couple who learned how to build sexual tension doing yoga together and flirting and touching each other.
May 12, 2018 • By Ashley Papa

How to Build Sexual Tension: Tips from Top Sexologists

“It’s not just a precursor to pleasure—it’s pleasure in and of itself.”

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A woman who's afraid of commitment, looking at her boyfriend as they hold hands and walk in a field.
May 1, 2018 • By Ashley Papa

7 Tips for People Who are Afraid of Commitment

If you’re afraid of commitment, there are things you can do to move past it.

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When you're dating in your 30s like this couple a few things change.
April 28, 2018 • By Ashley Papa

6 Things You Should Know About Dating In Your 30s

Because you’re not in your 20s anymore. And that’s a good thing.

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A woman who learned how men fall in love, smiling with her husband under a tree at their wedding.
April 26, 2018 • By Ashley Papa

What You Need to Know About How Men Fall in Love

Experts explore how the male mind (and heart) work when it comes to love.

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If you're thinking of dating older women like this one leaning against a blue wall, there are some things you should know.
April 9, 2018 • By Ashley Papa

8 Things You Should Know About Dating Older Women

Be prepared for the fact that it’s nothing like dating a woman your own age or younger.

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A woman who's feeling ignored by her boyfriend, looking at her phone and trying to figure out what to do when he ignores you.
April 3, 2018 • By Ashley Papa

Feeling Ignored? What to Do When He Ignores You

We’ve all been ignored before, but what can you actually do about it?

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