Jessica Tholmer

Dating and Relationships Writer
Jessica Tholmer has been writing on the internet for what feels like most of her life. After studying English Literature in school, she has leaned into her degree and is a full-time content writer, social media manager, and freelance contributor to websites like HelloGiggles.com. You can find her on Twitter and Instagram! Jessica has been working with Zoosk to create unique, insightful content around various topics related to online dating, love, and relationships.

Articles

Zoosk illustration depicting an online dater using mobile phone and dry texting.
April 20, 2023 • By Jessica Tholmer

How To Not Be A Dry Texter: 10 Tips To Lift Your Text Game

Dry texting has become increasingly talked about in recent years. The phrase refers to someone who typically responds to text messages with brief one or two-word answers. You know the type of conversation. One in which it feels like you’re carrying the whole thing entirely on your own. These days, we’re long past the time …

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Zoosk illustration showing image of a happy, smiling couple enjoying a second date together.
April 5, 2023 • By Jessica Tholmer

13 Second Date Tips That’ll Guarantee You Have An Amazing Time

If you’re excited to go on a second date (and hoping for a third date), these tips are for you.

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Happy couple standing outdoors with man kissing woman on the cheek as she smiles and asks herself the question, "is he serious about me"?
December 20, 2022 • By Jessica Tholmer

Is He Serious About Me? 11 Signs He’s For Real

Look for these things that show you how he really feels.

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Single father with his daughter. Tips on how to date a single father
June 7, 2022 • By Jessica Tholmer

6 Top Dating Tips For Single Dads

Dating isn’t always easy. But, dating as a single parent can be especially tricky, and knowing where to start can feel daunting at first. As a single dad looking to reenter the dating scene, there can be a lot to wade through at first. This is where having a few dating tips for single dads …

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Happy woman sitting on a sofa, looking towards camera and smiling as she discovers that self love is the best love.
February 11, 2022 • By Jessica Tholmer

Why Self-Love Is The Best Love

Self-love is the best love. It’s something we’ve been hearing a lot lately. And for good reason! Though learning to love yourself might seem like a daunting challenge, it’s easy to get there. We’re living through an era in which self-love is arguably more important than ever. It’s time to understand why.  What Is Self-Love?  …

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Romantic couple lying down and facing each other while sharing some romantic quotes about love.
January 14, 2022 • By Jessica Tholmer

The Best Relationship Quotes About Love To Get The Heart Racing

Is there anything quite like a relationship quote about love to really make you melt? From the flirty quips to the romantic lines, there’s a reason we hear the same phrases and expressions at weddings and anniversary parties. We’re all likely familiar with lines like E.E.Cummings’ “i carry your heart with me (i carry it …

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Happy, smiling couple sitting around a candle while on a date at a romantic place to visit.
December 18, 2021 • By Jessica Tholmer

The Most Romantic Places To Visit: Where To Take Your Lover

Where do you start when trying to find the most romantic places to visit? Whether it’s for an upcoming birthday or the perfect Christmas present, gift-giving can be stressful. This is especially true if you haven’t been dating your partner for long. But, never fear, we’re here to help! Giving romantic visits as a gift …

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Romantic couple smiling and laughing together on a snowy day while trying out some cute winter date ideas.
November 26, 2021 • By Jessica Tholmer

Cute Winter Date Ideas For When It Gets Cold Outside

Trying to come up with some cute winter date ideas to get through those cold months can be tricky. The days are shorter and the weather is very, very uninviting. This makes the thought of stepping out the front door so unappealing that you only want to wrap yourself in a blanket and turn the …

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Smiling woman lying in bed on her phone reading a good morning paragraph for her from her partner.
November 19, 2021 • By Jessica Tholmer

Good Morning Paragraphs For Her That Will Make Her Smile

Everyone deserves to wake up happy. With the weight of the world, it’s not always possible. That’s where you come in. If you want to make your partner happy every day, why not start her day with good morning paragraphs for her. Sure, breakfast in bed is great and fresh coffee is a must, but …

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