Jessica Tholmer

Dating and Relationships Writer
Jessica Tholmer has been writing on the internet for what feels like most of her life. After studying English Literature in school, she has leaned into her degree and is a full-time content writer, social media manager, and freelance contributor to websites like HelloGiggles.com. You can find her on Twitter and Instagram! Jessica has been working with Zoosk to create unique, insightful content around various topics related to online dating, love, and relationships.

Articles

November 8, 2019 • By Jessica Tholmer

An Updated Guide to Defining the Relationship

These days, relationships have many phases, most of them undefined. If you know what you want, here’s how to ask for it.

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October 1, 2019 • By Jessica Tholmer

What is Dogfishing?

All you need to know about catfishing’s less offensive cousin.

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September 4, 2019 • By Jessica Tholmer

Yellow Flags To Look Out For in a Relationship

They’re not dealbreakers but they’re definitely deal considerations.

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Common dating app clichés, providing insights into what to avoid for a successful online dating experience on Zoosk.
September 2, 2019 • By Jessica Tholmer

How Not To Be A Dating App Cliche

If we’ve seen the joke one time, we’ve seen it a million times.

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A woman taking a selfie for her online dating photo.
June 5, 2019 • By Jessica Tholmer

How to Get the Best Dating Profile Pictures

Tip #1) Don’t over do it.

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A girl thinking "I miss my boyfriend too much" while her boyfriend has his arm around her.
March 21, 2019 • By Jessica Tholmer

I Miss My Boyfriend: What to Do When You Miss Him All the Time

It’s ok to miss someone you care about, but what do you do when you start to miss them a little too much?

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A woman on a mountain embracing the universe and the concept of agape love.
March 13, 2019 • By Jessica Tholmer

Agape Love: Meaning, Origin, and Examples

What is agape love? Where did it come from? And what does it look like?

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A guy texting these opening lines to a woman he met on a dating app.
March 11, 2019 • By Jessica Tholmer

30 Opening Lines to Start a Conversation on Any Dating App

Because saying hi just isn’t enough.

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A couple using one of these cheap date night ideas and sharing pizza at home on the couch.
February 25, 2019 • By Jessica Tholmer

16 Fun, Cheap Date Night Ideas You’ll Both Love

It’s not as hard as you think to have a great time on a budget.

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