Jessica Tholmer

Dating and Relationships Writer
Jessica Tholmer has been writing on the internet for what feels like most of her life. After studying English Literature in school, she has leaned into her degree and is a full-time content writer, social media manager, and freelance contributor to websites like HelloGiggles.com. You can find her on Twitter and Instagram! Jessica has been working with Zoosk to create unique, insightful content around various topics related to online dating, love, and relationships.

Articles

A woman who's dirty a nerdy guy, wearing nerd glasses with her boyfriend while they both make silly faces and laugh.
October 29, 2018 • By Jessica Tholmer

The 6 Best Things About Dating a Nerdy Guy

One of the best parts of dating someone is experiencing what they love too. And nerdy guys are happy to share.

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A couple who's showing signs of sexual tension, hugging and flirting at a party.
October 26, 2018 • By Jessica Tholmer

7 Signs of Sexual Tension That Mean Things Are Heating Up

Sexual tension is all about a feeling, not about a specific move.

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One of these causes for divorce, made this woman give her ring back to her husband.
October 9, 2018 • By Jessica Tholmer

4 Causes of Divorce: Common Reasons Marriages Fail

Those who have gone through a divorce will tell you that it’s usually not a single event that causes the final break.

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A girl wondering, "Should I break up with my boyfriend" while sipping coffee and watching the sunrise.
October 6, 2018 • By Jessica Tholmer

Should I Break Up with My Boyfriend? How to Know It’s Time

If you have been running through these thoughts or feelings about your boyfriend, it may be time to break up with him.

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A guy who learned what does benching mean sitting on a bench with the girl he's dating chatting.
September 21, 2018 • By Jessica Tholmer

What Does Benching Mean? Here’s Your Definition

Benching is a newer term to the lexicon of the dating world, but there’s nothing new about being lead on.

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A guy drinking coffee and wondering, “Should I break up with my girlfriend?” while looking out the window.
September 17, 2018 • By Jessica Tholmer

Should I Break Up with My Girlfriend?

Chances are if you aren’t happy, she isn’t either.

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A girl who feels like my ex hates me, standing next to her ex and looking away as they both look mad.
September 14, 2018 • By Jessica Tholmer

My Ex Hates Me: 5 Things You Can Do

Even if you were the one to call it off, knowing that someone who once cared about you now feels so strongly against you is hard. Here are some ways to approach it.

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A couple who used these fun things for couples to do laughing and clinking champagne glasses as they have a home date night.
September 13, 2018 • By Jessica Tholmer

Fun Things for Couples to Do at Home or Out and About

A few ideas for ways to spend time with the person you love.

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Man choosing a dating site
September 9, 2018 • By Jessica Tholmer

Tinder vs POF: 5 Things That Really Stand Out

When looking for the perfect dating app for you, it’s nice to try a few out.

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