Shani Jay

Bestselling Author and Empowerment Coach
Shani Jay is the Creatrix & Goddess In Chief of Revoloon. Ask her what she does for a living, and she’ll tell you she holds a mirror to your soul, so you can see how beautiful you already are. Shani is a bestselling author and internationally published writer. Her articles have reached and touched millions, while her books have made their way into the hands and hearts of thousands of women worldwide. You can also find some of her work at SilverSingles and EliteSingles. Shani has been working with Zoosk, sharing her knowledge and creating engaging content for online daters looking to make real connections with like-minded singles.

Articles

Colorful illustration demonstrating various acts of service love language examples.
February 22, 2023 • By Shani Jay

The Acts Of Service Love Language: A Complete Guide

The acts of service love language describes the process of feeling love and adoration through visible actions. Acts of service is one of the five love languages that help to explain the different ways in which we like to express and receive love. But, what is the acts of service love language, how is it …

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Happy couple laughing and dancing together outdoors after taking their relationship to the next level.
October 12, 2022 • By Shani Jay

How To Take A Relationship To The Next Level: All You Need To Know

Knowing how to take a relationship to the next level isn’t always easy. What should you say? When’s the right time? Is there ever a right time? How do you avoid getting hurt?  Thankfully, with a few tips and tricks in mind, moving a relationship to the next level doesn’t have to be such a …

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Happy couple relaxing and laughing together on the sofa while reading one of the best relationship books.
July 29, 2022 • By Shani Jay

15 Of The Best Relationship Books To Keep Yours Healthy

Have you ever wondered what the best relationship books are? Whether you’re a new couple or you’re in an established, exclusive relationship, books on healthy relationships can be great for strengthening the connection between you and your partner. But, what is the best book on relationships? With so many options out there, knowing where to …

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Covid couple with masks on. Important things learned about relationships during covid.
May 12, 2022 • By Shani Jay

7 Important Things We Can Learn From Our Relationships During Coronavirus

The pandemic turned everyone’s lives upside down. One of the most challenging aspects was the impact it had on our relationships. For couples, lockdowns meant spending a lot more time with each other than usual. For singletons, friends, and family, it meant severe restrictions on the time we could spend together and the intimacy we …

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ADHD couple who met on a dating app
April 25, 2022 • By Shani Jay

ADHD And Relationships: How You Can Make It Work

All relationships require work to thrive. This can be a challenge at the best of times. Throw in one, or both, of the partners having ADHD, and the challenge starts to become even more daunting. This can quickly feel like a significant strain on a partnership.  However, coping with the prospect of ADHD and relationships …

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Happy couple on a first date in a coffee shop, smiling and talking.
January 3, 2022 • By Shani Jay

Social Anxiety And Dating: Getting Back Into Dating After A Pandemic

You might think that social anxiety and dating are two things that don’t go well together. Throw in a global pandemic and social distancing, and the whole thing can set off alarm bells for all of us.  This is where online dating comes in. It’s common for those who experience social anxiety to lean heavily …

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Happy couple smiling and embracing each other while having dinner outdoors and meeting the family.
December 1, 2021 • By Shani Jay

How Long Should You Date Before Meeting The Family: A Guide

When you’re dating someone new, it’s common to wonder how long you should date before meeting the family? A month? Six months? A year? How soon is too soon? And, at what point does it become rude not meeting the parents?  Meeting your partner’s family is a big deal, which is why deciding on the …

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woman lying alone in bed looking sad
May 6, 2021 • By Shani Jay

The Most Common Relationship Problems And How To Overcome Them

How to get through even the toughest issues!

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love yourself written out with colorful candy
April 15, 2021 • By Shani Jay

38 Of The Best Love Yourself Quotes For Real Inspiration

Our favorite love yourself quotes of all time.

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