Young, happy couple smiling at each other during a romantic Valentine's Day date idea.

Romantic Valentine’s Day Date Ideas to Escape the Crowds

Don’t want to worry about a reservation? We’ve got you covered.

Published on January 31, 2023 • By Alex Bocknek

Where do you start when it comes to choosing the perfect Valentine’s Day date idea? You know what it’s like. Heart-shaped chocolate box commercials clog the airwaves of every channel. All restaurants in town are booked with an overpriced prix fixe meal. Yep, Valentine’s Day is back! And although you’ve already treated your partner to a thoughtful Valentine’s Day gift, you’re now looking to combine this with the perfect date night. 

Your only problem? Every spot you thought of is already crowded with couples who sorted their plans months ago. Don’t worry. We’ve put together a list of romantic and creative Valentine’s Day date ideas so you won’t have to deal with the February love rush.

9 Creative Valentine’s Day Date Ideas for Him and Her

1. Candlelit dinner at home

Can’t get into a restaurant? No problem! Valentine’s Day home date ideas are all the rave right now. Pick a recipe, shop for the ingredients at your local grocery store, choose some nice wine, and prepare for a romantic night in. 

When the time is right, light the candles and you have a restaurant experience in the comfort of your own home. Who said the best Valentine’s date ideas had to involve leaving the house?

2. Winter picnic

Bundled up in your warmest winter clothes? Packed some blankets? Picked selection of your favorite fruit and cheese? You’re ready to go! 

If you can, choose your winter picnic location in a spot where you can light a fire and snuggle up. Because of the colder weather, you’ll have a good chance of being alone. A private, unique, and romantic Valentine’s Day date idea!

3. Romantic scavenger hunt

For the type-A folks out there, a romantic scavenger hunt can be one of the best Valentine’s Day date ideas. It’s a great way to put a little effort into your display of affection. Hand your significant other the first clue in bed in the morning, then let the games begin. 

The best part is, it’s totally up to you how big you want to make it. Whether you keep it in the house or take the scavenger hunt all around town is up to you.

4. Chocolate making class

How many times have you given or received a box of chocolate for Valentine’s Day? Now, how many times have you made the chocolate? Right. There’s a class for everything these days and chocolate making is no exception. 

Google “chocolate-making classes near me” and you’re bound to find one at your local chocolatier or rec center. If you and your partner prefer to stay in, choose from one of the many chocolate-making classes online. It’ll be messy, fun, and romantic. The best part is, well, eating chocolate. It’s a win for everybody.

5. Stargazing hike

If you’re feeling up for the challenge, bundle up and get hiking. You’ll probably want to pick a short trail since it’s likely to be cold. But, few things are more romantic than a clear, starry night with your partner.

6. AcroYoga course

As if yoga alone wasn’t trendy enough, now you can try it with a partner. It might sound like a bit of an out-there Valentine’s day date idea, but it can help you and your partner to connect in a whole new way.

It’s worth doing some research to find the best studios in your area before getting started. But AcroYoga is a fun way to get a workout in and get physical in a sensual way. If someone gets dropped, at least it’ll be worth a few laughs.

7. Bed and breakfast getaway

Itching to get out of town? Book a bed and breakfast somewhere within driving distance. It’s a good way to get a change of scenery and away from the hustle and bustle of your hometown. And your breakfast gets taken care of so you can relax the morning away.

8. Couples spa day

It’s a classic Valentine’s Day date idea for reason. A spa is the epitome of relaxation and pampering, and your partner will thank you for it. Nothing says I love you like a deep herb scrub and essential oil massage, followed by a few minutes in the sauna and a nice dinner to top it off.

9. Volunteering at the SPCA

If you can’t get a pet but miss having animals, this is your ticket. The Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals (SPCA) is always on the lookout for volunteers. Choose this Valentine’s date idea if you and your partner fancy spending the day hanging out with the pups and kittens that have had a rough ride in life. Do some Google searching to find your local SPCA branch and get in touch to let them know you’re available to help. You won’t regret it!

You’ll win bonus good citizen points as a reward for your selfless work too. I guarantee you this has not been suggested as a cute Valentine’s Day date idea before, but it’s one of our favorites!

Craft Your Best Valentine’s Date Together

When it comes to Valentine’s Day date ideas, it’s always important to remember that spending quality time with your partner is the most important part, regardless of the specific activity you end up choosing. Work out a plan together for something special that you’d both enjoy doing. And, if you’re genuine, sweet, and present with each other, that’s the sign of a good date and a good relationship!

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