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A couple discussing different dating topics on their first date and laughing outside as they connect.
September 3, 2018 • By Jessica Tholmer

5 Dating Topics to Avoid on a First Date

Drunken stories, pet peeves, and assumptions might be better for later.

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A man who’s dating a narcissist looking out the window with the blinds casting a shadow on him as he thinks about his relationship.
September 2, 2018 • By Sherry Gaba LCSW

6 Signs You’re Dating A Narcissist

If you’re worried you may be dating a narcissist, there are some telltale issues to look for.

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A woman who figured out what single men want, laughing and kissing her boyfriend’s cheek on the beach.
September 1, 2018 • By Alex Bocknek

What Single Men Want According to Online Dating Data

A look into the data reveals a few interesting things.

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A couple in love kissing in a wheatfield in a classic love story style.
August 31, 2018 • By Alex Bocknek

How the Way We Talk About Love Changes How We Love

An interview with author and professor Mandy Len Catron.

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A couple laughing and smiling together because they listened to these conscious dating tips and now have a happy relationship.
August 31, 2018 • By Amie Leadingham

5 Conscious Dating Tips to Change the Way You Date

Many unconscious daters date in a way that’s no better than trying to find love by throwing darts at a dartboard. There’s a better way.

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A single mom with her son who’s laughing, showing what it’s like to be dating a single mom.
August 30, 2018 • By Jessica Tholmer

6 Things to Know When Dating a Single Mom

You may think singles moms are always busy, but it may be they have a lot of free time when the kids are away.

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A woman who listened to these breakup tips at the beach with her arms out, embracing life because she’s getting over it.
August 29, 2018 • By Ashley Papa

7 Expert Breakup Tips for Getting Over It


Are you ready to move on? Here’s what to do.

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A woman in the grass looking at a dating app on her phone, using some of these digital dating tips.
August 29, 2018 • By Kevin Carr

Digital Dating Tips for Analog Daters

For those of you who may not be the most digital-savvy daters, but are trying to find love in this brave new world.

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For polyamorous folks, it’s a fairly common occurrence but that doesn’t make it any less intimidating. We all worry about meeting the parents for the first time, but what about meeting your partner’s partner? A metamour is a your partner’s partner, who you are not emotionally or sexually involved with. Unlike with a triad, where all three are in a relationship, a metamour is your partner’s boyfriend or girlfriend, not yours. For monoamorous people, meeting a metamour is not something they’ll ever have to worry about, unless someone’s been cheating. But for polyamorous people who practice open relationships, it just a fact of life. It might be intimidating but you should always meet your metamour. Your metamour is an important part of your partner’s life and it’s important to make an effort to understand him or her. It’s healthier for all of you to get how you’re feeling out into the open. But where do you start? Pick a safe, neutral place to meet. You, your partner, and your partner’s partner should all be involved in this conversation. Pick a place that’s non-intimidating and one that holds no romantic or emotional connection for any of you. Don’t pick the place that you and your partner had your first date because your metamour might feel uncomfortable or like he or she isn’t welcome in that space. Don’t do it at any of your homes because that can make it feel like one person has all the power in the conversation and the other two are just guests who are there to listen. Pick a relatively quiet place where you know you won’t be interrupted. Pay attention to body language, ask questions, and ask consent. You might be very extroverted but your metamour might not be. Try not to overwhelm them with questions, but make an effort to get to know them. And make an effort to let them know you as well. Try to find common ground other than the fact that you are both dating your partner. You don’t have to be your metamour’s best friend, but it does help to try to be friends. Maybe you both have the same taste in movies or books or you both like hiking or going to the beach. This commonality can be great because, while you may not be looking to be romantic with this person, having friend dates down the road can be really fun. Also, as always, consent matters, even if it’s not sexual. Don’t hug your metamour right away unless you ask if it’s okay to hug. Let your partner lead the conversation at first. Let your partner make introductions and be sensitive to the fact that they’ll likely be anxious for this conversation too. There’s no guidebook that tells poly people how to introduce their partners. It’s not something that really gets taught in school. If you see your partner having trouble, ask questions to guide them but don’t overwhelm them either. Be honest about your expectations and desires. Remember that this is a conversation between equals. How you feel is equally as important as how they feel. Don’t be afraid to share your emotions and what’s going through your head. If your partner and your metamour have been spending time together and you’ve been feeling a bit neglected, talk about maybe working out a schedule that works for everyone. It’s okay to say if you’re feeling a bit uncomfortable or even a little bit jealous. Even poly people get a little jealous sometimes, especially if they feel like they aren’t getting the same time and care that they used to. It’s okay to say this, but remember to focus on, “I feel…” statements. Be sure to say “I feel a little neglected lately. Can we talk about sharing our time more equally?” Don’t accuse or say, “You’ve been ignoring me lately.” It will result in defensiveness rather than openness. Let your partner check in with your metamour. Step away for a moment. Go to the restroom or volunteer to grab more drinks at the bar. Your metamour is likely sharing in some of your anxiety. Let your partner have a moment alone with your metamour so he or she can check in with them. It shows that you respect their relationship and you are showing that they respect and want to include your metamour. Check in with your metamour yourself. Make sure you and your metamour exchange contact information. Like I said, you might be going on friend dates down the road and that would be so great! But even if you’re not, make sure you have that number and try to reach out to show that you care about their feelings as well. Send them a text afterwards saying how nice it was to meet them and see where the conversation goes from there. You don’t have to be best friends but you do have to respect and include one another. Meeting a metamour doesn’t have to be scary. It’s awkward and kind of weird which makes it a bit funny. If you treat everyone at the table with respect and openness, it can even be fun and you might make yourself a new friend.
August 28, 2018 • By Jacqueline Gualtieri

Polyamorous Dating: Meeting Your Partner’s Partner

Meeting a metamour doesn’t have to be scary.

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A strong woman ready to live the single life after breaking up with her partner.
August 26, 2018 • By Elizabeth Entenman

10 Signs You’re Ready for the Single Life

If you relate to these 10 signs, you might be ready to be single again.

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A woman who’s showing signs of low self-esteem leaning against the wall as she looks out the window looking resigned.
August 25, 2018 • By Shani Jay

7 Signs of Low Self Esteem That Most People Overlook

Low self-esteem can hit in unexpected ways, even if you think you’re confident.

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A couple in bed after having an NSA hookup, smiling under the sheets.
August 24, 2018 • By Jacqueline Gualtieri

Is the NSA Hookup Just a Myth?

Some people who are interested in NSA lie by omission. Others just flat out lie.

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A couple riding bikes together on their fourth date, laughing and having a conversation while they look at the view.
August 23, 2018 • By Shani Jay

8 Things to Be Ready for on the Fourth Date

In case you didn’t know it, date number four is kind of a big deal.

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Young man using smartphone for online dating and choosing between Bumble vs. Tinder.
August 23, 2018 • By Shayla Ahrns

Bumble vs. Tinder: Which Is Best For Men And Women?

You may be surprised.

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Two professionals look into each other's eyes and wonder what the other one is thinking.
August 22, 2018 • By Alex Bocknek

Data Study: How Your Work Life Affects Your Love Life

Work and play. This is where they meet.

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