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October 28, 2020 • By Shani Jay

Dating For Older People: Why Love Is Very Much Alive After 50

There’s no age limit when it comes to love!

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June 5, 2020 • By Karen Belz

50 And Single Again: How To Get Back Out There

How to start dating again at 50, and make the most of it.

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January 29, 2020 • By Jacqueline Gualtieri

The Joys of an Older Woman Younger Man Relationship: Advice and Insight

Here’s why an older woman dating a younger man can be great, for both of you.

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January 5, 2020 • By The Zoosk Editorial Team

What You Need to Know About Dating a 50-Year-Old Man

Dating a 50-year-old man can be a great experience. This is why.

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July 17, 2019 • By Tara Mae Mulroy

What to Know If You’re Dating a Divorcee for the First Time

If you don’t share their relationship experience, it’s all right. But here are some things that may help to know.

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June 27, 2019 • By Ashley Papa

Senior Dating Tips You Should Never Listen To

Guess what? You should still be picky.

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April 28, 2019 • By Brianne Hogan

7 Things to Know Before Using 50 and Over Dating Sites

Online dating might be a new experience for you, but that’s what makes it even more exciting.

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April 15, 2019 • By Shani Jay

8 Things That Change When You’re Dating Over 60

Dating isn’t just for the twenty and thirty somethings out there.  

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March 19, 2019 • By Dr. Diana Kirschner

4 Reasons Older Women Are Dating Younger Men

When it comes to finding the person for you, sometimes the best fit may not look the way you expect.

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March 14, 2019 • By Ashley Papa

10 Things You Should Never Do While Dating After 50

Dating after 50 isn’t all that different than when you were younger, but (and here’s the thing) you’re different.

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March 8, 2019 • By Tara Mae Mulroy

Over 50 Dating Sites: Are They Better Than Sites for All Ages?

Is a bigger dating pool or a more select dating pool better?

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February 11, 2019 • By Alex Bocknek

7 Things to Know Before Trying Over 50 Dating Sites

Prepare yourself for disappointments and excitements and take things as they come.

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February 3, 2019 • By Karen Belz

9 Common Mistakes to Avoid While Dating After 50

Everyone makes mistakes and missteps while dating, but here are a few things that are easy to avoid.

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January 25, 2019 • By Karen Haddigan

Dating After 50: Let’s Tell People We Met in a Bar

The use of online dating is exploding, but for some of us older daters it still has a stigma.

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January 19, 2019 • By Shani Jay

Senior Dating: What It’s Really Like and What You Should Do

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Online dating isn’t just a game for the youth — more and more people over 50 are turning to digital dating platforms like Zoosk to seek out love or companionship without relying on traditional routes. We wrote this blog post to help people over 50 who are interested in online dating get a better idea of the digital landscape, what they can expect from using a site like Zoosk, and how to get the most out of their online dating experience.

Dating over 50, especially online, has a unique set of challenges, starting with navigating the digital world of online dating if you aren’t very tech-savvy. Luckily, Zoosk has a simple interface and intuitive browsing process that will help you dive right into the platform without feeling like you need a degree in tech to use it. Others who may have tech experience might find themselves dealing with anxiety about finding a partner later in life, or struggling with self-consciousness about this “non-traditional” method of meeting new people.

The good news is that you are not alone in these hurdles. There are many out there who feel the same way that you do, but think about it this way: you’ll have something to kick a conversation off with if you can both admit you are feeling a bit disoriented with this type of experience!

Take a look below to learn more about using dating sites over the age of 50, as well as some misconceptions about online dating at this stage in your life. If you are ready to take the leap, sign up for your free Zoosk account today!

Exploring the Importance of Dating In Your 50s

Dating in your 50s can be an enriching experience with many advantages compared to dating in your younger years. At this point in life, you have a lot of self-knowledge that you didn’t before, and with this knowledge, you can make some pretty good judgments on whether or not someone is a good match. You will consider your values, your desires, your goals, and what you are looking for in a romantic partner, and can bring all of these expectations and desires to the conversation where you can have an open and honest discussion about whether you both think it’s worth your time to try dating.

At this age you are years past the pressure of societal expectations about dating, settling down, and “getting serious.” You can come to Zoosk and meet some lifelong friends, potential partners, or that special someone whom you plan to spend the rest of your life with.

And most importantly, dating in your 50s is an adventure! Get out there, meet new people, and you will probably be surprised about what you learn about yourself during this process. There are so many interesting people out there with different life experiences, histories, and approaches to life that you can benefit from meeting.

Common Misconceptions About Dating Over 50

You might be finding yourself resistant to dating over 50 because of some assumptions or misconceptions you have about the dating scene that you can expect. Here are a few misconceptions we’ve heard from our users that they were happy to find out they were wrong about! What assumptions or beliefs do you have about dating over 50? Do any of these resonate with your own reasons for hesitation?

Not Much of a Sex Life

This couldn’t be further from the truth! Many over 50s even say that their sex life is even better than it was when they were younger, and that’s due to a number of reasons including self-confidence, knowing what you like (and don’t like), and a history of experience that informs the way that you approach sex in your 50s and beyond. The amount of sex you have in your next relationship is up to you and your partner.

Men Just Want Conquests

Some people think that older men on dating sites are just looking for casual sex with younger partners, and while this might be true for some, it is not a universal truth by any means. Many men who are on dating sites are looking for meaningful relationships with partners who have shared interests, similar ages, and a strong emotional connection — which is much different than seeking out a young partner for some casual excitement.

Everyone Is Looking For Financial Support

By their 50s, many individuals have developed some degree of financial stability and are not necessarily logging into dating sites to find someone who can provide them with support. What we see with our members is that many over 50 singles are looking for someone who is at a similar financial stage as they are and who wants to move through life sharing values and experiences.

Divorcees Have More Baggage

On the contrary! Sure, there are people of all ages who are still trying to process a bad divorce, but there are plenty of others who have children and former marriages that absolutely do not count as “baggage.” A first marriage can be an important learning experience for someone who had that phase of their life and is now moving forward, more informed, and ready to bring these learnings into their next relationship.

The Benefits of Dating an Over-50 Partner

There are many benefits to dating someone over the age of 50 that you may or may not already be aware of. Here are a few that stand out to us:

Emotional Maturity

Someone over the age of 50 has likely spent a lot of time learning about strong communication and the importance of balance in their lives. This can translate to a willingness to have open and honest conversations about friction in a relationship, which will strengthen your bonds and establish more trust in your partnership.

Less Pressure

Dating in your 50s means that you aren’t dealing with the pressure to find a partner, get hitched, and start a traditional life together. At this point in life, you can take your time, pay extra attention to any red flags, and walk away from any situation that doesn’t seem absolutely ideal.

Wisdom

Someone who has lived for 50 or more years has a lot of experience in life, and this leads to knowledge and wisdom that guides them through their daily lives. Wisdom and knowledge are two helpful qualities to bring into a relationship where you will need to build a strong foundation of mutual understanding and communication.

Clear Expectations

An older individual knows what they want in a relationship, and can lay these expectations out in the first few dates. This is a great opportunity to address some really important commonalities or disagreements in a potential partnership, and ultimately decide whether or not any disagreements here are total dealbreakers before committing a lot of time and energy into getting to know each other. This is something that younger couples really don’t get to enjoy.

Tips for Successful Over-50 Dating

Here are a few tips that we’ve seen our members follow and find su

  • Keep an open mind. Don’t limit yourself to what you have already decided is the only suitable match for you. Have conversations with people you wouldn’t otherwise, you might learn a thing or two!
  • Know what you want. Yes, having an open mind is important, but knowing what your non-negotiables are will help you recognize major red flags or compatibility issues before diving too deep into a conversation.
  • Stay positive. There are a lot of people active in online dating, and you might not connect with the exact perfect match right away. Don’t get discouraged, even through rejection.
  • Be honest. It can be appealing to tell little white lies in early conversations with a potential partner — especially someone that you feel really excited about. The problem is that these little lies will eventually come out if you move forward, so it’s best that you are honest and transparent fr
  • om the start.

Sign Up Today

If you are ready to take the plunge, sign up for a free Zoosk account today! Once you’ve filled your profile out, uploaded your pictures, and answered some questions, you are ready to start browsing through the many 50+ singles in your area. Online dating is great for people over 50!