Jessica Tholmer

Dating and Relationships Writer
Jessica Tholmer has been writing on the internet for what feels like most of her life. After studying English Literature in school, she has leaned into her degree and is a full-time content writer, social media manager, and freelance contributor to websites like HelloGiggles.com. You can find her on Twitter and Instagram! Jessica has been working with Zoosk to create unique, insightful content around various topics related to online dating, love, and relationships.

Articles

A woman at a coffee shop, a good place to meet single women.
February 22, 2019 • By Jessica Tholmer

How to Meet Single Women Without Being Creepy

It’s ok to approach a woman, but you also need to read her cues and respect what she’s telling you.

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A man wondering what women want in a man, sharing a drink with his girlfriend as she smiles at him.
February 20, 2019 • By Jessica Tholmer

What Women Want In a Man: 5 Key Things

It may seem like a mystery at times, but it’s really not that complicated.

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A man who's hugging his girlfriend and showing all the signs a man is falling in love with you.
February 16, 2019 • By Jessica Tholmer

7 Signs a Man is Falling In Love With You

You can be very aware of how you act when you’re falling in love, but it can be hard to figure out if it’s reciprocated.

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A girl sitting on a guy's lap and he laughs and they show some of these flirting signs.
February 15, 2019 • By Jessica Tholmer

7 Flirting Signs That Let You Know They’re Into You

Flirting is so much fun, but can also be incredibly confusing.

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A woman lying the grass with her friend, thinking to herself, "I'm in love with my best friend."
February 14, 2019 • By Jessica Tholmer

I’m In Love with My Best Friend: Ok, Here’s What You Do Now

Do you act on it, or do you let it lay until it goes away?

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A sigma male walking by himself down some railroad tracks looking pensive.
February 14, 2019 • By Jessica Tholmer

7 Traits of a Sigma Male (That Alpha, Beta, and Omegas Don’t Have)

Think about a lone wolf.

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A guy who learned how to talk to woman, whispering in her ear at a coffee shop as she laughs.
January 12, 2019 • By Jessica Tholmer

How to Talk to Women You’re Interested In Without Screwing Up

A few tips to help you confidently talk to that woman you’re interested in without making a major misstep. 

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A girl who just realized I love him, smiling and laughing to herself shyly.
January 11, 2019 • By Jessica Tholmer

I Love Him: Now That You Can Admit It, What Comes Next?

Falling in love can be amazing and exciting. But it can also be pretty scary if you didn’t see it coming.

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A woman who learned how to make him want you, about to kiss a buy outside in the sun.
January 8, 2019 • By Jessica Tholmer

How to Make Him Want You: 10 Ways to Really Turn Him On

Flirting is fun, but taking it to the next level is even more so.

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