Jessica Tholmer

Dating and Relationships Writer
Jessica Tholmer has been writing on the internet for what feels like most of her life. After studying English Literature in school, she has leaned into her degree and is a full-time content writer, social media manager, and freelance contributor to websites like HelloGiggles.com. You can find her on Twitter and Instagram! Jessica has been working with Zoosk to create unique, insightful content around various topics related to online dating, love, and relationships.

Articles

A man who used one of these things I love about you to compliment his girlfriend, kissing her outside under a tree.
January 7, 2019 • By Jessica Tholmer

Things I Love About You: Compliments to Give Your Partner

There are a million things you love about your partner—it’s time you let them know!

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A girl who knows what going stag means, sitting alone at a wedding and cheersing the people around her.
December 15, 2018 • By Jessica Tholmer

What Going Stag Means and How to Own It

Going solo to an event can actually be a blessing in disguise.

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A man who found cute ways to ask a girl out, handing a girl flowers before seeing if she'll go on a date with him.
December 12, 2018 • By Jessica Tholmer

7 Cute Ways to Ask a Girl Out: The Creative, Silly, & More

When you need to be more creative than a text message.

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A man who used to have a lot of relationship insecurities kissing his girlfriend's head and smiling as they snuggle together in a blanket.
December 11, 2018 • By Jessica Tholmer

How to Let Go of Your Relationship Insecurity

It’s okay to feel your feelings, to have grace in your own healing process, and to love yourself throughout it all.

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A woman who's asking her boyfriend awkward questions covering her face and laughing behind her fingers.
December 10, 2018 • By Jessica Tholmer

60 Awkward Questions to Ask the Person You’re Dating

A healthy relationship is one that can discuss the tough stuff. So don’t be afraid of a little awkwardness.

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A woman who learned about the body language of men, laughing with her boyfriend as he leans on her.
November 10, 2018 • By Jessica Tholmer

What the Body Language of Men Tells Us

Here are a few of the key things to look while you’re with a man.

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A couple who went through these stages of dating laughing as a man holds his girlfriend in the hair and she wears his hat.
November 7, 2018 • By Jessica Tholmer

The 8 Most Important Stages of Dating

Stage 4: The Awkwardness.

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A woman who's showing some of this body language of women, smiling behind her hands.
November 6, 2018 • By Jessica Tholmer

What the Body Language of Women Can Tell Us

Learning to be attuned to how a woman is feeling can help you read her and the situation.

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A woman posing in front of her bathroom mirror showing off her abs and doing one of these dating profile no nos.
November 3, 2018 • By Jessica Tholmer

8 Dating Profile No-no’s That Make You Get Passed On

It’s these little things that can turn off a lot of people who might really enjoy getting to know you.

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