Jessica Tholmer

Dating and Relationships Writer
Jessica Tholmer has been writing on the internet for what feels like most of her life. After studying English Literature in school, she has leaned into her degree and is a full-time content writer, social media manager, and freelance contributor to websites like HelloGiggles.com. You can find her on Twitter and Instagram! Jessica has been working with Zoosk to create unique, insightful content around various topics related to online dating, love, and relationships.

Articles

A woman who used one of these it's over quotes walking away into the sunset smiling.
July 1, 2018 • By Jessica Tholmer

It’s Over Quotes: 61 Breakup Quotes to Say Goodbye

When you’re not sure how you feel or how to express yourself, finding the right words can help you move through it.

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A couple in a healthy relationship hugging in the sunset as the woman closes her eyes and smiles.
June 30, 2018 • By Jessica Tholmer

6 Things Healthy Relationships Have in Common

The core values healthy relationships share.

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A girl playing one of these games to play over text and laughing at her phone with her long-distance boyfriend.
June 28, 2018 • By Jessica Tholmer

Games to Play Over Text with Someone You’re Dating

Feel connected to your partner, regardless of how far apart you are.

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A couple online dating over 40, gazing into each other's eyes on a first date.
June 27, 2018 • By Jessica Tholmer

Helpful Tips for Online Dating After 40

Online dating done right can be a pretty great time.

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A woman sending flirty messages on her phone and laughing.
June 17, 2018 • By Jessica Tholmer

Flirty Messages to Send via Text or Online

Some tips to help you take your flirtatious banter to the next level.

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A couple who found what to talk about on a first date, cheersing on the beach.
May 21, 2018 • By Jessica Tholmer

What to Talk About on a First Date

Go into your first date feeling confident.

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A woman asking herself if it's a good idea to have no contact with your ex or not while looking out a window.
May 11, 2018 • By Jessica Tholmer

Is It Best to Have No Contact with Your Ex?

Sometimes a breakup can be more like a redefinition of your relationship to someone. But is that the best choice?

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couple standing in fornt of white wall laughing at the sweet things he is saying to her
April 13, 2018 • By Jessica Tholmer

120 Sweet Things To Say To A Girl Via Text Or In Person

Inspiration and ideas on how to make her day.

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A couple who paid attention to these signs you're in love kissing on top of a mountain at sunset.
April 6, 2018 • By Jessica Tholmer

8 Signs You’re In Love

Could you be in love without even knowing it?

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